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The Santa Claus Debate

December 9, 2015 by Mama Carmody 42 Comments

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The Santa Claus Debate




Santa Claus or Not

Whether to let your child believe in Santa Claus or not has been a big discussion among the Christian community for quite a while and thus started the Santa Debate.

I grew up in a Christian home, went to a Bible teaching church and a Christian high school. I ran into a lot of people that didn’t want their children believing in Santa Claus. The household I grew up in, and the household I raised my children in, were not among the Santa unbelievers.

Center of Christmas Celebration

As a Christian, I believe that the main emphasis of the Christmas season should be honoring and celebrating the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ. I believe that the important lesson from the season is the lesson of giving. During this time of the year, we should be finding ways to give of ourselves, expecting nothing in return. Much like God did when He gave us His precious Son, Jesus.

Jesus was the center of our Christmas season but we also believed in Santa Claus. Children believe in a lot of things when they are young that they will eventually out grow. They believe in monsters under their beds, that they will never ever want to leave home, and little girls believe they will grow up and marry their daddies. I do not believe it is harmful to let children believe in these things when they are young, but how you handle it when they start asking questions can be the tricky part.

When the Questions Come

I appreciate the way my mother handled the questions. She wouldn’t lie to us, but rather ask us questions to find out what we believed (and probably more importantly, what we wanted to believe).

When we would go to her and ask, “Is Santa real?” She would ask us, “What do you think?” Then we would have a discussion about it. Once your child gets old enough to look you in the face and ask if you are Santa, then its time to tell the truth. Of course, if you think they are still too young to tell them the truth about Santa you can try a few questions first like, “What do you think?” If they say they don’t believe you could be Santa, they will probably give you reasons like, “You couldn’t be Santa because you don’t have a sleigh.” If they give you an answer like that, then they probably aren’t ready to give up the idea of Santa but if they say something more like, “I think you are Santa because I saw some of the same toys that Santa brought in the back of your closet.” Then the jig is up and you should tell them the truth.

When I Found Out

I was somewhere around seven or eight years old when I had to face the realization that my parents were Santa Claus. My mom thinks that I had all ready figured it out but I was enjoying the fantasy. It was my younger sister that brought the fantasy to an end. She was between three and four years old. She went to our mom, looked her in the eyes and said, “Tell me the truth! Are you and daddy Santa Claus?” Well, with a straightforward question like that mom had no choice but to tell her. Mom says that based on the reaction I had towards my little sister, I must have all ready suspected that they were acting as Santa Claus. I took my sister back to our bedroom and with tears running down my face I said, “Now you ruined it!”

My Reaction to the Truth

I may have been upset at my sister for blowing Christmas and Santa for me, but I was quite impressed and thankful for all that my parents had done for us and given us, without any recognition. For all those years, the love and gratitude for most of the presents had gone to Santa Claus. Now I was realizing that it was mom and dad that had spent all that money and had stayed up most of the night putting together toys and setting them around the Christmas tree.

Our Updated Santa Claus Visits

My parents were wonderful in the fact that even though we now knew the truth as to who Santa really was, he still came to visit as long as we wanted to “believe”. We did the same thing for our children. “Santa” wasn’t quite as extravagant in the years after the truth was revealed, but he still brought a few things and filled stockings.

Right now “Santa” only brings a few things for my husband and my stocking since the children are now grown and gone. Yes, I still believe in Santa Claus and I still enjoy being Santa Claus. I’m sure that I always will.

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The True Meaning of Christmas

December 3, 2011 by Mama Carmody 16 Comments


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The True Meaning of Christmas





As I stated in my post, The Santa Claus Debate, although we included Santa in our Christmas celebrations, he was not the center of our Christmas holiday. Teaching our children the spiritual meaning behind the season was what we focused on. My posts for December are going to include different symbols of Christmas and their spiritual meanings. I will include crafts and books that you can use to make the learning fun.

As I was doing research for my different lessons, I found this story and thought it summed everything up very well. If you are not including Santa in your Christmas celebrations you could easily tell this story without putting Santa in it. If you need help with that, just let me know and I could edit it for you.

This story would make a great object lesson too. Find a very small table-top tree and purchase the different items that are talked about. We have stores here in Indiana where you can buy things for just $1. You could find most of the items for this story at one of those stores. The children could then help out in the telling of the story by pulling the different items out of a bag and adding them to the tree.

Have fun celebrating this very special time of year with your children as you teach them the true meaning of Christmas.

Teach the Children the True Meaning of Christmas

One December night, many years ago, I had just finished decorating for Christmas when I heard a noise at the front of the house. I turned on the porch light and opened the door. To my surprise just as I stepped outside, I saw Santa Claus climbing out of his sleigh. He placed his fingers over his lips, silencing me before I cried out.

“What are you doing…” I started to ask…but the words choked up in my throat as I saw he had tears in his eyes. His usual jolly manner, the eager, boisterous soul we all know, was gone. He composed himself by clearing his throat, then answered me in a whisper. “Help teach the children.”

I was puzzled. What did he mean? He anticipated my question, and with one quick movement brought forth a miniature toy bag from behind the sleigh. As I stood there bewildered, Santa stated again but more firmly, “Teach the children. Teach them the true meaning of Christmas. The meaning that has long been forgotten.”

I invited him in to warm by the fire as I tried to tell him that I wasn’t sure if I knew what he meant… when Santa reached into the toy bag and pulled out a brilliant shiny star.

“Teach the children that the star is the heavenly sign of promise,” he said. “God sent a Savior to the world and the star was the sign of that promise being fulfilled. The countless shining stars in the heavens, one star for each person on earth, represents the hope of all mankind.”

Santa gently laid the star on the fireplace mantle and brought from the bag a bright red Christmas tree ornament.

“Teach the children that red is the first color of Christmas. It was first used by the faithful people to remind them of the blood that was shed for all the people by the Savior. Christ gave His life and shed His blood that every man might have God’s gift of Eternal Life. Red is deep, intense, and vivid — the richest color of all, and it is a symbol of the greatest gift from God.”

“Teach the children,” he said as he pulled a small Christmas tree from the bottom of the toy bag. He placed it near the fireplace and gently hung the red decoration on it.

“The deep green branches of this tree is a perfect background for this ornament. This is the second color of Christmas,” he continued. “The pure green color of this evergreen tree remains this color all year round. This represents the everlasting plan for mankind. Green is youthful, hopeful, and the abundant color of nature. The needles on the tree point heavenward — symbols of man’s prayers as they go toward heaven. Trees have been man’s best friends. They have sheltered him, warmed him, and made beauty for him.”

Again, he pulled something from his bag; I heard a soft tinkling sound of a bell.

“Teach the children,” he said, “that as the lost sheep are found by the sound of the bell, it should ring for every person too, that they might find their way back — it means guidance and return. It further signifies that all are precious in the eyes of the Lord.”

As the soft sound of the bell faded, Santa lit a candle and placed it on the mantel. The soft glow from its tiny flame cast a glow about the darkened room. Odd shadowy shapes slowly danced and wove pictures upon the walls.

“Teach the children,” whispered Santa, “that at one time candles were placed on Christmas trees. They glowed brightly against the dark green branches showing man’s appreciation for the star of Bethlehem of long ago. Now, strings of colored lights have taken their place in remembrance of Christ’s birth.”

Santa turned the small Christmas tree lights on and placed a gift under the tree.

He pointed to the bow and said, “A bow is placed on a present to remind us of the spirit of brotherhood of man. We should remember that the bow is tied as all of us should be tied together, with the bonds of good will toward each other. Good will forever is the message of the bow and the gift, a gift of love.”

Santa reached for a candy cane, and held it out towards me.

“Teach the children that the cane represents The Shepherd’s staff. The crook on the staff helps bring back sheep that have strayed away from the fold. The candy cane represents the sweetness of giving not only at Christmas time, but also throughout the entire year. The spiral design is a symbol that we are, our brother’s keepers.”

Santa looked about the room, then again at the tree. His love and great feeling of satisfaction shone from his eyes. He could not help but sense the wonderment and admiration that I felt for him in my heart.

One last time, he reached into his bag and brought forth a large beautiful wreath. As he placed it on the door he spoke gently with love, “Please teach the children that the wreath symbolizes the eternal nature of love: it never ceases, stops, or ends. It is one continuous circle that only grows greater and greater when expressed. The wreath, the circle of love, plays a double role. It is made of many things and has many colors. It reminds us of God’s unconditional love and the true reason for Christmas. Please teach the children.” (Author Unknown)

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How to Eat A Pumpkin: A Lesson From a 3 Year Old

November 3, 2014 by Mama Carmody 13 Comments


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How to Eat A Pumpkin: A Lesson From a 3 Year Old

How to Eat a Pumpkin
How to Eat a Pumpkin

How This All Started

From the time we took our 3 year old great-nephew to Stuckey Farm’s Harvest Festival, he has been obsessed with eating a pumpkin. It started as we were leaving the pumpkin patch. He asked if he could eat his pumpkin. We told him that he could make yummy things from his pumpkin, like pumpkin pie or pumpkin bread; but little did we know that this was NOT the end of this discussion.

Eating Raw Pumpkin?

Since he asked about eating his pumpkin a couple more times on the way home, I decided I should do a little research. I grew up with a garden in my backyard and we grew lots of fruits and vegetables. I have seen and eaten a lot of them raw, including peas and zucchini squash but I had never eaten a raw pumpkin. As a matter of fact, I had never eaten pumpkin in any form other than as some type of a dessert. I searched the internet for information and recipes. I did find out that it was safe to eat pumpkin raw but I didn’t have much luck in finding ways to cook it other than as an ingredient in a recipe.

I decided it was time for some experimenting with pumpkin. My niece, Nicole, dropped Jeremiah off with his pumpkins; the one he picked with us and one for us to carve into a jack-o-lantern. She informed me that he was still very interested and excited about eating his pumpkin. She said she even caught him, one day, sitting in the kitchen floor, on top of his jack-o-lantern pumpkin, with a fork in his hand and his small pumpkin sitting in front of him. When she asked him what he was doing he told her he was going to eat his pumpkin. She was able to convince him to wait.

How to Eat a Pumpkin: scooping out pumpkin "guts"
How to Eat a Pumpkin: scooping out pumpkin “guts”

Preparing the Pumpkin

Since Jeremiah was so interested in eating his pumpkin I didn’t want to buy canned pumpkin for our recipes. I wanted him to experience actually eating his pumpkin. So the first thing we needed to do was make pumpkin puree. I found instructions on The Pioneer Woman: Homemade Pumpkin Puree. (My daughter swears by this site.) I cut the pumpkin in half and he helped me scoop out the seeds and “guts”. We started out using spoons but found out our hands did a better job. We saved the seeds to roast later.

I had purchased an inexpensive child’s pumpkin carving set at the Dollar Tree. It had a safety knife in it. This way Jeremiah was able to help me cut up the pumpkin into pieces. It was a pretty flimsy knife. I’m going to have to find something better for him to use in the future. We got the pumpkin all cut up and onto a lined cookie sheet so we could pop it in the oven to roast.

Our Experiment with Raw Pumpkin

How to Eat a Pumpkin: eating raw pumpkin
How to Eat a Pumpkin: eating raw pumpkin

While cutting up the pumpkin for roasting we did a little experiment. We tried eating the raw pumpkin. First, we each had a taste of just the plain, raw pumpkin. We both thought it was kind of tasteless. It wasn’t bad but there wasn’t anything special about it either. I thought it resembled raw zucchini. We then tried it with some salt. It was better with salt. Our next taste test was with cinnamon and sugar. Jeremiah really liked it this way and ate several pieces. I thought the experiment was over but Jeremiah wanted to try one more thing. He wanted to try it with cinnamon, sugar and salt. I can’t say I was overly excited about this one but in the true act of experimentation, I knew we should give it a try. Neither of us was very impressed with that taste, but at least we tried it.

Jeremiah and I discussed our little experiment and our findings. He decided that his favorite way to eat raw pumpkin was with cinnamon and sugar and mine was with salt.

How to Eat a Pumpkin: fresh from the farm
How to Eat a Pumpkin: fresh from the farm

My Hypothesis

I’m still not quite sure where Jeremiah got the extreme interest in eating his pumpkin. By the time children are three years old, they usually associate a pumpkin with Halloween and carving a jack-o-lantern but Jeremiah never mentioned that to us. All he ever talked about was eating his pumpkin. After doing a lot of thinking, I came up with a theory. Whenever we go pick apples, we pick them right off the tree and even eat some while we are picking. I believe that since we went to the pumpkin patch and picked the fresh pumpkin off the vine, Jeremiah thought was should be able to just eat it like we did the apples. Of course this is just a theory because only God understands the workings of a three year old boy’s mind.

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How to Eat a Pumpkin, Part 2

November 5, 2014 by Mama Carmody 17 Comments


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How to Eat a Pumpkin, Part 2





In my first post, How to Eat a Pumpkin: A Lesson From a 3 Year Old, you got to hear how my great-nephew was obsessed about eating a pumpkin. I mentioned how we conducted a little taste experiment. You can read more about that in the previous post. Now that Jeremiah had been given his chance to eat some pumpkin, I wanted him to find out how we could also cook with it.

How to Eat a Pumpkin: roasting pumpkin
How to Eat a Pumpkin: roasting pumpkin

Pumpkin Puree

As I mentioned in the previous post, since Jeremiah was so interested in eating his pumpkin I didn’t want to buy canned pumpkin for our recipes. I wanted him to experience actually eating it, so we started out with instructions on making pumpkin puree from The Pioneer Woman. I cut the pumpkin in half and then we cleaned out the seeds and “guts”. Jeremiah helped me cut the pumpkin into pieces using an inferior child’s safety knife I purchased at Dollar Tree. It was safer than giving him a real knife but I’m going to have to look for something better for future use. We placed the pieces on a cookie sheet and I put it in the oven to roast.

After the pumpkin had completely cooled, Jeremiah and I broke it into smaller pieces and placed them in the food processor. I let him run the food processor while I got pictures. He wasn’t particularly impressed with the noise but he did like watching the process.

How to Eat a Pumpkin: puree the pumpkin
How to Eat a Pumpkin: puree the pumpkin

Once we had our puree we could start preparing our recipes.

How to Eat a Pumpkin: pumpkin puree
How to Eat a Pumpkin: pumpkin puree

Pumpkin Dip

The first recipe we tackled was Pumpkin Dip, found on Health.com. I did most of the measuring on this recipe. Jeremiah helped measure the maple syrup by holding the teaspoon while I poured. He helped me count 2 teaspoons. I gave him the opportunity to do the mixing with the electric mixer. He did a great job.

How to Eat a Pumpkin: Using a Mixer
How to Eat a Pumpkin: Using a Mixer
How to Eat a Pumpkin: Pumpkin dip
How to Eat a Pumpkin: Pumpkin dip

If you are going to have a little one help you with the mixing, I recommend getting a mixing bowl with a handle. I didn’t have to worry about fingers getting into the beaters because his “free” hand was busy holding the bowl still. Once it was all mixed well, I transferred the dip to a couple of storage bowls to save for later.

Pumpkin Waffles

The next recipe we tackled was Buttermilk Pumpkin Waffles, from Taste of Home. It was breakfast time and we needed something to eat. I measured the dry ingredients and let Jeremiah dump them in the bowl. He then broke the eggs, into a separate bowl, and measured the pumpkin puree.

How to Eat a Pumpkin: Making Waffles
How to Eat a Pumpkin: Making Waffles

He is a very observant young man. Without any directions from me, other than “fill the measuring cup with pumpkin”, he would put a spoonful in and press it down with the back of the spoon. He had watched me do that with the brown sugar in the previous recipe.

I gave him a small whisk and he mixed the eggs, buttermilk, pumpkin and butter together. We then dumped the mixture in with the dry ingredients and whisked that together.

How to Eat a Pumpkin: making pumpkin waffles
How to Eat a Pumpkin: making pumpkin waffles

Once it was mixed together, I poured the batter onto the waffle iron. The waffles turned out beautifully. I cut the waffle into strips so Jeremiah could dip it into the pumpkin dip. Either he was really hungry or really excited to eat his pumpkin waffles because when he first started he had a waffle strip in each hand. After a couple of bites with the pumpkin dip he decided he would rather have maple syrup. As for me and my husband, we really liked the dip with the waffles.

How to Eat a Pumpkin: Pumpkin Waffles
How to Eat a Pumpkin: Pumpkin Waffles

Roasted Pumpkin Seeds

Last, but definitely not least, I cleaned up the pumpkin seeds. I then put the seeds in a bowl, covered them with water and added coarse sea salt. I let them soak for about an hour. Then I covered a cookie sheet with a piece of parchment paper, drained the water off the seeds and spread them on the parchment paper. I sprinkled a little more salt over the seeds. This time I used a finely ground sea salt. The oven was preheated to 450 degrees. I popped them in the oven for somewhere between 5 and 10 minutes. I could smell them getting toasty and when I saw they were starting to turn brown I took them out of the oven. From directions I had read, I should have sprayed them with some oil but I forgot. They turned out just fine, so I will probably not use oil the next time either.

Cooking with Jeremiah is a lot of fun. His enthusiasm with life is contagious. I may have never tried to eat raw pumpkin if he hadn’t been so insistent. I would still like to find some simple, non-dessert recipes for pumpkin. If you know of any, please share them with me.

And don’t forget, no cooking session is complete until you lick the spatula!

How to Eat a Pumpkin: best part of cooking
How to Eat a Pumpkin: best part of cooking

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Kids are Out of School…Now What?!

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